why are women afraid to get married?

Background fear or trauma of woman to marry is because these days a lot of divorce and that's what makes her scared and traumatized to commit in marriage.

The fear, if he one day will become bored with her partner and it tends to happen because of one man's nature is likely to get bored easily. As an example of the man tends to approach the woman often eager to get her attention, but when it got and married men tend to tire of their partners, and often only concerned with their partners is reduced.

Therefore, it is important if women are always concerned appearance, cleanliness, fitness, beauty and always fragrant and fresh. Though already married and already had children.

Because basically he was concerned the appearance of women. Even before and after marriage, held a change so that men see the changes towards goodness. For example, before marriage may be less attention to appearance, after marrying the woman really looked at her appearance, though to be cooking, cleaning, tidying the house, caring for children and many other activities.

Often ignored by the appearance of women's bodies, women think that their husbands do not mempermasahkannya. And it is wrong, because any man who does not like to see a beautiful wife, clean, fresh, healthy, fragrant and well behaved.

Older woman looking at the changes and usually women tend to age rapidly. For that she must have time in care, because pretty is not necessarily expensive. Start with diligent bath, scrub 2 times a week, brush teeth, wash your hair, wear deodorant, body lotion to use is not easy to dry skin and wrinkles. Also notice that the diet is not easy elastic body and wearing clean clothes and interesting. What we often neglect is the lack of drinking enough water, so the face does not look fresh.

Other things that make women the trauma is often a good man to do violence intentionally or unintentionally. Regarding men often become the backbone in making a living and have high levels of stress or pressure. Both the family and the environment, jobs, too, the social environment, yet plus he has full responsibility in all things. Those things that makes the emotion does not become uncontrolled and often acted against the wife, either intentionally or unintentionally.

Yet women are often traumatized in the case of sexual abuse either before marriage or after marriage. This is recorded in her memory and be forgotten, so that women are often shut down and having an extension of the trauma.

But basically she's very easy to trauma and trauma that makes women less likely to do it and experience it again. But women also have an emotional memory and the invisible latent, but these things will affect the emotional level, and decisions will be taken by women.

Therefore do not be traumatized, but the experience is happening for us women to be a valuable lesson. So what is bad does not happen again, and it becomes a valuable evaluation.